- Stay away from negative people
You can't live a positive life if you've negative people in your life. Negative people will spread negativity and also they have a problem for every solution. A negative person will surely have many reasons to prove you wrong and let you down. So, always try to ignore the negative comments or simply reply by saying 'OK'.
- Smile when picking up the phone
Whenever you pick the phone, speak politely and smile. Surely, the other person will feel good. That person will feel your smile over the call. If you don't know who is on the call, speak politely 'MAY I KNOW WHOM I AM SPEAKING TO' . It will put a good impression on the listener and also, you'll become a reason for his/her smile.
Forgive others but don't forget the lesson which you've learnt from your mistake or from other's mistakes. If you don't forgive others, you'll feel tensed and angry. So, you'll not be able to enjoy your life You'll always feel hurt. So, forgiving them will make you feel happy.
Just have a thinking in your mind that whatever happened to you was good, whatever is happening in your life is good and whatever will be happened in your life will be for your goodness. So, thank god everyday and every time. Thank for whatever you have. Thank every night before sleeping for the beautiful day which you've spent.
- Help at least 1 person daily
Don't wait for good things happen to you. Go out and make the good things happen. Help others. Helping others, doing things for others is a powerful way to boost your happiness as you''ll get a lot of blessings from them. It will improve your mood and reduce stress.
- Set a goal and try to achieve it
Goals make you an active participant in your life. Set goal whether it's difficult or easy, doesn't matter. Always think 'I CAN'. Creating goals will strengthen you. Make a plan for achieving your goals and follow it. Do your best for achieving your goals.
Accept everything which happens to you. Accept challenges and face them. Accept failure and think that you have been given an another chance to prove yourself in a better way and try to give your best . Acceptance will make you strong and definitely,you''ll feel happy and satisfied. When you realize you've made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.
- Always keep a smile on your face
Most people smile because they feel happy but you should think that " I AM HAPPY BECAUSE I SMILE". Smiling not only makes you happy but makes others happy too. Smiling even if you're tensed or sad is a symbol of how strong you are. Even if something bad happens to you, just smile and think it has happened for my goodness .You''ll definitely feel good.
Spending time for yourself is a key for happy life. Walk daily. Spend time in silence. Do creative activities. Write your good things. Find your passion and make it happen. Do things which make you happy. Know yourself and try to improve yourself
- Maintain a positive attitude
Positive attitude is must for happy life. Suppose you're ditched by someone, think that the person who ditched you was not right for you. God has given you another opportunity to find a better person than him/her. Throw away negativity from your life. Always say 'I CAN'., 'I WILL' and remember 'NEVER GIVE UP'
- Don't compare your life to others
Great words said by Bill Gates "Don't compare yourself with anyone in this world. If you do so, you're insulting yourself." Every person has different life. Don't compare yours' situations with others. Always think that you're unique. Comparisons take away joy and happiness from you.
What others think of you should be none of your business. Don't worry. Worrying will not make the conditions good but it will make you feel sad . If you can't laugh at the same joke told to you repeatedly then why to remain sad and worry about the past.
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